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'That's MY GIRL!!!' Spirit Secrets Revealed by a Life Coach

In the grand theater of life, each of us plays numerous roles – parents, partners, lovers, breadwinners, cleaners, chiefs, friends, colleagues, and many more. Yet, amidst these varied roles, one character often gets overlooked and forgotten: the role of being our own biggest supporter and cheerleader. As we invest so much time loving and supporting others, why do we frequently neglect to love, cherish, and support ourselves? Why is it so effortless for us to relegate our own needs and desires to the bottom of the so-called priority list? How is it that everyone else can command our time, energy, and devotion with a simple click, while the line for our own attention seems perpetually long and filled with other 'urgent distractions'?



In a world that can be challenging and demanding, cultivating self-support can be a game-changer. Let's explore the significance of being your own cheerleader and how this mindset can lead to personal growth and fulfillment. Learning to be our own supporters liberates us from relying on external help and support, be it from partners, lovers, or best friends. Once you become your biggest supporter, the excuse to not take life into your own hands vanishes.


As a life coach empowering women daily, I witness the incredible transformations and positive changes in their lives. I want you to stand in front of the mirror and shout to yourself, "That's MY GIRL!!!" Be proud, take no nonsense from others, and if someone tries to dim your sparkle, tell them and show them that they have knocked on the wrong door. Ultimately, it is your life, and you need to reclaim ownership of it.


If you want your life to resemble a beautiful garden, you need to put in the work to make it beautiful. Do not leave it to chance. Plant the seeds of joy and uproot the weeds that have been there for some time. It's your life at the end of the day, and you are your own CEO, so take ownership of your life and treat it as a business. Make your own decisions; say NO to things and people who do not contribute positively to your life. Change the dynamics of your life so that it represents the business (your life) you are proud of and find satisfying and fulfilling. Depending on the situation you are in, it may not take a day or two to fix it; it may take a month or a year. The time it takes to fix it doesn't really matter, as long as you give it your best shot. That's what counts — you taking consistent actions to make it better and more fulfilling. My advice to you as a life coach is that it will be all worth it in the end. You just need to be patient and loving towards yourself. Ignore unwanted opinions and transform your life into a beautiful garden full of love and joy.


I've listed below a few points for you to focus on, apply to your life, and observe how it changes:


Self-Love as the Foundation: The journey of self-support begins with self-love. Acknowledge your worth and understand that you deserve your own encouragement. Embrace your strengths, accept your flaws, and treat yourself with the kindness and compassion you readily extend to others.


Take action: Nothing will happen if you only live in your head and take no action. You need to take small, consistent steps forward to move from your current situation. It will take time, it will take adjustments, BUT it will be worth it. Start now; take a long shower, put your favorite music on, complete your old and forgotten to-do list, and take action. Don't feel like doing it? Great! Acknowledge it and DO IT ANYWAY.


Celebrating Your Achievements: Don't downplay your accomplishments. Would you downplay the achievement of your child, loved one, or your best friend? No, you wouldn't. So why would you downplay yours? Be your own cheerleader, taking time to acknowledge and celebrate your achievements, no matter how small. Recognizing your successes reinforces a positive mindset and builds confidence in your abilities.


Joyful blonde woman in a white swimsuit leaping with happiness against a serene sunset seascape, radiating health and beauty
"When no one else applauds, applaud yourself. When you conquer your fears, celebrate yourself. Be the first to appreciate your victories." - Debasish Mridha

Navigating Through Challenges: Life is a series of challenges. Be your own cheerleader during tough times, focusing on lessons learned and the strength gained through overcoming obstacles. This fosters resilience and a belief in your ability to persevere.


Setting Realistic Goals: Support yourself by setting challenging yet realistic goals. Break down larger objectives into manageable steps, acknowledging your progress along the way. This approach keeps you motivated and allows you to appreciate the journey rather than fixate solely on the destination.


Cultivating Positive Self-Talk: The way you speak to yourself matters. Replace self-critical thoughts with positive affirmations. When facing challenges, remind yourself of past successes and your ability to overcome difficulties. Positive self-talk is a powerful tool for fostering a supportive and encouraging internal dialogue.


Embracing Imperfection: Accept that perfection is an unattainable ideal. Be your own cheerleader by embracing your imperfections, as they contribute to your uniqueness. Celebrate the beauty in your flaws and use them as opportunities for growth and self-discovery.


Building a Supportive Environment: Surround yourself with people who uplift and inspire you. Share your goals and aspirations with those who genuinely want to see you succeed. While external support is valuable, remember that being your own cheerleader is an inside job. The foundation of self-support must come from within.



Becoming your own biggest supporter and cheerleader is a transformative journey that requires practice and self-awareness. Throughout my own life journey, even as a certified life coach, I find the need to remind myself of this sometimes. Life has a funny way of testing us and, in a way, diverting us from the path we think we 'should be going'. We need to remember that we are all works in progress; no one is perfect, even if it seems like it. We all go through our own life lessons. By cultivating self-love, celebrating achievements, navigating challenges with resilience, and fostering positive self-talk, you lay the groundwork for a more fulfilling and empowered life. Embrace the role of being your own cheerleader, and witness how it propels you towards a future filled with self-discovery and success. If you need support and would like me to be part of your journey as your life coach and motivator, please reach out, as I would love to hear from you.


With Love xxx


Aleksandra Miciul




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